My Flirt With Fame
Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight. (Proverbs 12:22)Though honesty and truthfulness are highly valued by God, they are not exactly prominent features in our culture. When it comes to lying and dishonesty, it seems like everyone is doing it. Surveys suggest that most people feel comfortable lying at least in some situations. It even seems that we expect our elected officials to lie to us. Yet, scripture tells us that lying lips are an abomination (1) to God. It is something that God absolutely hates. As followers of Jesus, our lives ought to be marked by honessty and intergrity.
Recently a good and godly friend of mine was faced with an interesting dilemma. Would he compromise his honesty and integrity for a brief flirt with fame. I’m happy to welcome Pastor Werner Peters, Pastor of Toronto’s Chinese Gospel Church, (English Congregation) as our guest blogger. I trust you’ll find his words entertaining and challenging.
My vegetable-oil adventure lasted about a year. I had converted a diesel-powered car to burn used vegetable oil. Interested people would stop and ask me questions about my experiment with renewable (and recycled) fuel. A friend of mine (a ministry colleague) heard about the vegetable oil and actually used the filtration process as an illustration in a sermon he was giving to his congregation. Before we take communion, we need to ensure that "the dirt in our souls is filtered out", and he used my process of filtering out used vegetable oil through a pair of denim blue jeans as an analogy.2
One of the people listening to him that day was a student of journalism at Ryerson. The story piqued her interest and she got my contact information from him, and gave me a call.
"Do you mind if I come over and do an interview with you," she asked?
"Not at all," I responded. Before the week was out, she showed up with another classmate and professional camera equipment. It took a couple of hours, but I showed her how it was done, and she plied me with many questions. It was my 15 minutes of fame, I thought.
A few weeks later, I got a call from CBC Radio3. They had heard of my greasy ways, and wanted to interview me for some Saturday morning entertainment program. Once again, I agreed to be interviewed, but this would not be a student who is learning to do interviews. This would now be the real thing. I was going to be heard by 500,000 people, she told me. "Wonderful," I thought. Maybe I could even slip in the location of our church or something similarly surreptitious and get some free advertising.
"We’ll call you back," she said. She did, within a week.
"We have it all ready," She said. "The dialogue is written out. Now, you have to understand that we’ve spiced it up a little. And we have fictionalized it in order to make it more entertaining."
"Wait a minute," I was still trying to process the phrase ‘the dialogue. is all written out’ and when she used the word ‘fictionalized’ I started getting dizzy. I saw my second 15 minutes of fame slipping through my fingers.
"I don’t understand, you’ve scripted a dialogue? You’ve written out what I am going to say," I ask incredulously?
Without skipping a beat, as if they do this every day, she said, "Yep." (Implied, "Did this plebe actually think we were going to let him speak his own mind on national radio! How naive!"
Another question, because it finally occurred to me what she meant by ‘fictionalized’. "Umm, excuse me, but are you saying that I will have to say things that are actually not true about myself?"
"Yes." She was on the phone, but I could hear her blank stare. And I am thinking to myself, "I can’t believe this. She knows I am a preacher, and she wants me to go on the airwaves to tell things about myself that are untrue."
"I’m sorry, but I really don’t think I can do this. Thank you for thinking of me though." I had to say something to bring closure to this embarrassing affair while I hung up the phone.
Being totally unnerved, I emailed a journalist acquaintance of mine, and explained what happened to me. "Is this normal operating procedure in your industry?"
He assured me that it was unethical and no, it was not normal.
My experience has left me doubtful though. Now, every time I turn on the radio, I wonder…..4
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1. Abonination: 1 an object of disgust or hatred. 2 a feeling of hatred
2. Pastor Werner’s car actually ran on used MacDonalds french fry oil. Imagine going into MacDonald’s and saying, "Filler up."
3. CBC is the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation. Canada’s National broadcaster, both radio and TV.
4. The problem with lying, dishonesty and lack of integrity is that you can never fully trust that source. When we lie about earthly things, can people really trust us when we talk about heavenly things?
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